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The Intouchables

Film · 2011 · Dir. Olivier Nakache & Éric Toledano; written by Nakache & Toledano. Starring François Cluzet, Omar Sy, Anne Le Ny, Audrey Fleurot

He hired the one guy who didn't feel sorry for him. Sometimes that's what care actually looks like.

Who it's for

Philippe hires Driss precisely because Driss doesn't treat him with pity, which puts into words what many disabled people say about well-meaning but diminishing care.

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What it is

Based on a true story, this French film follows Philippe, a wealthy quadriplegic man, who hires Driss, a young man who only applied for the caregiver job to get proof of rejection for his benefits, because Driss is the one applicant who does not treat him with pity.

Where to find it

Rent or buy on major digital stores. Streaming availability rotates; check JustWatch.

Before you start

Heads up: Quadriplegia and a wife's death.

Age: R (some drug use, language)

I am the master of my fate, I am the captain of my soul.William Ernest Henley, “Invictus”

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