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Drive My Car

Film · 2021 · Dir. Ryusuke Hamaguchi; written by Hamaguchi & Takamasa Oe (from Haruki Murakami's short story). Starring Hidetoshi Nishijima, Tōko Miura, Reika Kirishima, Masaki Okada, Park Yu-ri

Some grief comes with anger and guilt attached. It doesn't move until you say it out loud to someone who can hold it. 🚗

Who it's for

Drive My Car is one of the most careful recent films about grief that is tangled with anger, betrayal and guilt.

Numb→Released (Catharsis)

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What it is

Ryusuke Hamaguchi's drama, adapted from a Haruki Murakami short story, follows stage actor and director Yusuke Kafuku, whose wife Oto, a screenwriter, dies suddenly of a brain hemorrhage after he has discovered her infidelity. Two years later he moves to Hiroshima to direct a multilingual production of Uncle Vanya, and the theatre requires that he be driven in his red Saab by a reserved young driver, Misaki Watari.

Where to find it

Rent or buy on major digital stores. Streaming availability rotates; check JustWatch.

Before you start

Heads up: A child's death and a spouse's death.

Age: Not rated in US (suggested 16+)

Even as the stone of the fruit must break, that its heart may stand in the sun, so must you know pain.Kahlil Gibran, The Prophet, “On Pain”

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