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Tea Consent

Video · 2015 · Blue Seat Studios (animation; drawn by Rachel Brian), adapting a blog post by Emmeline May · Blue Seat Studios channel

If they don't want tea, don't make them drink tea. If they're asleep, definitely don't. It really is that simple. ☕

Who it's for

Consent conversations often stall on awkwardness or 'grey areas'.

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What it is

A short animated video by Blue Seat Studios, written by Emmeline May and illustrated by Rachel Brian, that explains sexual consent by comparing it to offering someone a cup of tea. It works through everyday scenarios: you don't force someone to drink tea they don't want, you don't make an unconscious person drink tea, and someone who wanted tea before, or who isn't sure, hasn't agreed to drink it now.

Where to find it

YouTube, Blue Seat Studios (free). A clean version, 'Tea Consent (Clean)', is on the same channel for younger audiences.

Before you start

Heads up: Sexual consent talk; may upset survivors.

Age: Ages 14+

I do not wish them to have power over men; but over themselves.Mary Wollstonecraft, A Vindication of the Rights of Woman, Chapter 4

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