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The Ocean at the End of the Lane

Book · 2013 · Neil Gaiman

Grown-ups told him nothing was wrong. The girl at the end of the lane believed him. 🌊

Who it's for

A middle-aged man, back in his hometown for a funeral, remembers being seven: a lonely boy who loved books, whose home was invaded by Ursula Monkton, a malevolent being disguised as a lodger-housekeeper, and whose father turned against him.

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What it is

A 2013 fantasy novel by Neil Gaiman. An unnamed man returns to his childhood hometown for a funeral and recalls events from about forty years earlier, when he befriended his neighbor Lettie Hempstock, a girl who called the pond behind her house an ocean. A supernatural entity entered his world and took the form of Ursula Monkton, who infiltrated his household and turned his father against him.

Where to find it

In print; widely available from libraries (Libby/Hoopla) and as an audiobook. Not public domain in the US. Also adapted for the stage (National Theatre).

Before you start

Heads up: A suicide and child abuse by a father.

Age: Ages 14+

And if it is a fear you would dispel, the seat of that fear is in your heart and not in the hand of the feared.Kahlil Gibran, The Prophet, “On Freedom”

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